"Honorable Duels" are overrated, one-on-one battles on flat and even terrain bore me, I do that enough in real life. It's way more satisfying to use resourcefulness and pragmatism to take on two or even three opponents at once.
I don't know how the BnB and the Sentinels can stand grinding out a hundred duels in those bland arenas of theirs.
Well, I prefer the "honorable duels" with gentlemanly bows and good ol' melee but I'm a stick-in-the-mud like that. :P
Incidentally, got jumped while talking to Casper and it was one such a duel. Just melee between equally leveled builds, each lugging a big ass weapon. None of that try-hard build bs. That kinda PvP I enjoy. Feels like the first Soulcalibur or even a 3D Samurai Spirits.
Blood Bros and Blue Balls grind duels to earn Cracked Orbs. In DS1 the similar covenants (Darkwraiths and Darkmoon) give the player a complete orb with unlimited uses. And in 2, well, you know how it is in 2.
people overeagerate the extremeness of level differences. I have spent 30+ hours on multiple characters mostly pvping and i have yet to notice a huge soul level difference. even if they're like 30 or so level higher it's honestly not that much of a difference as at that point equipments matter much more than levels.
My NG++ hexer is sitting on 5,000,000+ souls and my NG+ melee build on around 3,000,000. My characters have a very high SM, at least when compared to their SL. If I kept investing those is SLs, I could have builds roid-raging on levels. This isn't even much about PvP meta, I personally just enjoy the idea of a build having strengths and weaknesses. You are right that equipment is the most important thing but remember that certain stats affect performance of equipment; the most obvious examples being scaling bonuses and VIT for equipment load. DS2 never got that bad, but remember the ninja-flipping Havel moms in DS1? :/
And it really doesn't take much to boost SM, especially if you Sunbro or farm for certain materials (lol Shrine of Amana).
Anywho, I admit I "bumped" my personal limit from SL150 to SL175. My hexer was a anemic mess that ran out of breath in 2 seconds just because I wanted a little more STR to play with the Scythe of Want.
The farming place I was indicating is a hot spot surrounded by icy cold. A place you can drop in and farm a certain something that only exists within the enemies there.
And let me guess - you need 50 of that drop? :3
If it is what I'm thinking it is, you are better served doing co-op for that fight. The drop rate is higher for phantoms. Alas, and this ties to what I said above, watch your SM sky-rocket.
Side note, I lucked out against the two Pursuers and managed to get the Ring of Blades +2 from the first I beat. *keikaku.jpg*