You're like 6 keystokes away from typing toxic masculinity, aren't you? Nobody's in charge, Jarred. I do things, other people do things, and you, like others, want things to happen your way. Only difference is, you create an imaginary moral high ground that you get to live in while simultaneously threatening to go to dad and start a fight.
If it'll help you feel some sense of control to, "oust me," as you see it, then go to Rick. I for one, think you'd be great to be in charge like you want, given that you pushed hard to make CB our thing, and then organized two separate international fundraisers to make the event even better. You've done so much for us, that I'm very much regretting ever having upset you.